Bad blood in the Mideast flows from generation to generation like an ancient river of oil and water. From the days of Abram to our own breaking news, there seems to be no end to the fatal rivalry of Ishmael and Isaac.
The conflict that began with patriarchs of the Arab and Jewish people affects all of us. It costs us at the gas pump. It divides us at church. Some of us think our faith leads us to be pro-Israel. Some think a good Samaritan theology favors the Palestinians.
My pattern has been to side with those who are sympathetic to the Jewish struggle for a homeland because:
It’s easy to forget that:
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t want to betray the trust of our Jewish friends. I just deeply regret that I have heard the cries of Sarah and Isaac while being blind to the tears of Hagar and Ishmael. I haven’t done well in distinguishing between what God is doing in Israel and what Israel herself is doing without God.
From the beginning, Ishmael seemed to be the son of a bad idea. Although he was born into the home of Abram and Sarah, Ishmael was conceived as a result of his father’s relationship with an Egyptian woman named Hagar.
At Sarah’s suggestion, Abram had a child by her live-in housekeeper. But the solution itself gave birth to trouble. Later, when Sarah miraculously conceived a son of her own, the stage was set for conflict between the two boys and their mothers. At Sarah’s urging, Abram put Hagar and Ishmael out of the house.
According to Genesis 21:17-20, heaven responded tenderly to the tears of Hagar. The angel of the Lord gave her son a name which means “God will hear” (Genesis 16:11). God Himself was with Ishmael (Genesis 21:20) and promised to make him into a great nation (Genesis 17:20).
In the process of befriending Hagar and Ishmael, however, God seems to warn of the painful consequences that will result from Abram’s actions. Of the child he and his wife threw into the wilderness, God said, “He shall be a wild man [literally wild donkey]. His hand shall be against every man, and every man’s hand against him. And he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren” (Genesis 16:12). Ishmael seemed destined to show us that hurt people hurt people. Being thrown out of the house probably contributed not only to his own approach to life but to a survival attitude that became a part of his legacy.
Several factors can help to balance our understanding of what God was doing with Isaac and Ishmael:
And how are we to respond? We can respond with awe, because what God has chosen to do and to allow is unfolding before our eyes. We can respond with discernment, because there is a difference between what God is doing in Israel and what Israel herself is doing without God. And we can respond with goodwill, because the God who has promised to take care of us has asked us in turn to bless all and to curse no one (Romans 12:14).
Father in heaven, I have been so slow to see that my love tends not only to be self-serving but full of prejudice as well. Help me not only to hear the cries of Sarah and Isaac but to see the tears of Hagar and Ishmael. Please help us to see that the conflict between Arabs and Israelis is a picture of how much we all need the grace and peace that can be found only in You.